The more energy you put into something, the more it seems to push you back a couple of steps. This clash is happening because what you are expressing is not what you really want. Kind of like ordering the wrong item from the menu, then blaming the waiter for the mistake. Take some time to reassess your values and beliefs then start to use that as the guide to your decisions and requests.
Venus in Aquarius: Relationships that are off-beat.
SIMPLY PUT: Rewiring yourself to express your needs better.